The Wedding Is Just the Beginning: What No One Tells You About Life After Marriage
- Tamesha Kinloch-Carter
- Jul 22
- 2 min read
You spent months planning the wedding. You picked the perfect dress, locked in the vendors, handled the seating chart, the playlist, the favors. You pulled off a beautiful day that reflected who you are and what you love.
But now what?
No one talks enough about this part, the part after the big day. The part where you're not just a bride or a groom anymore. You're someone’s spouse. You’re in a marriage. You’re building a life. And the truth is, that part deserves just as much planning as the wedding itself.
That’s why The Planner Wedding Magazine has always been about more than centerpieces and cake. Since we launched in 2021, our foundation has been this: helping people not only plan their weddings, but plan their lives during and after marriage.
Why We’re Expanding the Conversation
It’s easy to find advice about dresses, decor, and how to write your vows. It’s harder to find honest conversations about what it’s like to adjust to married life.
Here’s what we know:Marriage is beautiful, but it’s also work.It’s late-night talks, shared finances, in-law dynamics, and evolving dreams.It’s figuring out how to communicate clearly, how to stay connected, and how to grow, individually and together.
We created this new space "Life After Marriage" because we believe those conversations matter. We’re here to talk about real things:
How to have money talks that don’t end in arguments
What to do when marriage doesn’t feel like the honeymoon
How to manage expectations around intimacy, parenting, or career shifts
What it looks like to stay curious about your partner after the wedding
What You Can Expect From This Series
In the coming weeks and months, you’ll see posts that include:
First-hand stories from newlyweds, long-term couples, and blended families
Expert advice from therapists, coaches, and financial advisors
Downloadable tools and worksheets to help you stay aligned as a couple
And yes, still plenty of beauty and inspiration, because life after marriage should be just as full of joy and style as your wedding day
This isn't about perfection. It’s about showing up with intention, curiosity, and love.
Final Thought
If you’re reading this and you’re already married, just starting out, or thinking about what’s next, we see you. You’re not alone. This is a space where you can find support, ask questions, and plan for more than just one day.
We’re honored to be part of your journey.
Stay tuned. Your marriage deserves the same energy you gave your wedding.And we’re here to help you carry that forward.
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